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Reading as a Silence Problem: Focus, Time, and Advantage

I read about 30 books a year, and for me, reading is like enjoying a tasty dessert. I focus on fiction and business, with a mix of roughly 60/40. This balance keeps me sane (and I think my love for books actually inspired me to start building KidTeller too).

When I tell people this, the reaction is almost always the same:

I don't have time for books I can't focus I start a book and drop it after 20 pages Where do you even find the time? And isn’t it… kind of boring?

For a long time I took that at face value. Busy life, kids, work, phone, etc.

But recently I watched a clip of David Foster Wallace, and he said something that gave me a completely different perspective on it:

reading requires sitting alone, in a quiet room and a lot of people don't just find that boring they find it close to dread

His hypothesis was that it's not about time or attention span. It's the SILENCE.

Walk into any cafe, airport, gym, hotel lobby. There's music or something is always playing.

We've engineered silence out of public life because we can't sit in it. A book is the opposite of that. One person, one room, one thought for thirty minutes.

No dopamine drip. No notification. Just you and the page.

Reading isn't a time problem. It's a silence problem. And the people who learn to sit inside the silence quietly end up with a very unfair advantage.

Built something I wish existed earlier: personalized kids books + your own voice narration: kidteller.com

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